| | Re:DROP THE HATE FORGIVE EACH OTHER 2 Weeks, 6 Days ago | | | Hi Greta. Ya but your situation isn’t ideal. Ideally we expect the perpetrators to make it right. There currently isn’t that expectation in our world. We punish and banish with no emphasis on responsibility for actions (and sometimes we don’t even do that because the perpetrators are often the same people who control the earth). We need to make strong statement about responsibility and not just for the sake of the victim, but also for the perp. The thing is, you cannot awaken unless you take responsibility. It is a technical limitation of the PU. If you are throwing all your energy into repressing your Truths (which in the case of a child pedophile aren’t very pleasant), there is no energy available for awakening. In terms of the victim, I also think healing and forgiveness is facilitated when the perps. take responsibility and make it right. It shouldn’t be down to the victim for this. It should be up to the perpetrator. Your path of healing would have been a lot shorter if somebody besides you had taken responsibility. m |
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| | Re:DROP THE HATE FORGIVE EACH OTHER 2 Weeks, 6 Days ago | | | Hi Greta. Ya but your situation isn’t ideal. Ideally we expect the perpetrators to make it right. There currently isn’t that expectation in our world. We punish and banish with no emphasis on responsibility for actions (and sometimes we don’t even do that because the perpetrators are often the same people who control the earth). We need to make strong statement about responsibility and not just for the sake of the victim, but also for the perp. The thing is, you cannot awaken unless you take responsibility. It is a technical limitation of the PU. If you are throwing all your energy into repressing your Truths (which in the case of a child pedophile aren’t very pleasant), there is no energy available for awakening. In terms of the victim, I also think healing and forgiveness is facilitated when the perps. take responsibility and make it right. It shouldn’t be down to the victim for this. It should be up to the perpetrator. Your path of healing would have been a lot shorter if somebody besides you had taken responsibility. m Thank you for saying something Michael. I would agree that we DO need to make a strong statement about the perpetrator taking responsibility for their actions not only for the victim but also for themselves. After reading Gretas last post all I could think is “wow, what kind of world do we live in where the victim is not only blamed but also responsible for healing themselves without any recognition of the abuse and suffering that they withheld for so long. ” I thought, ” who would want to live in a world where that kind of standard is acceptable?” Its NOT ok. It NEVER was ok. And it is time that we STOP allowing this to be the standard. Happyelf |
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| | Re:DROP THE HATE FORGIVE EACH OTHER 2 Weeks, 5 Days ago | | Michael_Sharp wrote:
Hi Greta. Ya but your situation isn’t ideal. Ideally we expect the perpetrators to make it right. There currently isn’t that expectation in our world. We punish and banish with no emphasis on responsibility for actions (and sometimes we don’t even do that because the perpetrators are often the same people who control the earth). We need to make strong statement about responsibility and not just for the sake of the victim, but also for the perp. The thing is, you cannot awaken unless you take responsibility. It is a technical limitation of the PU. If you are throwing all your energy into repressing your Truths (which in the case of a child pedophile aren’t very pleasant), there is no energy available for awakening. In terms of the victim, I also think healing and forgiveness is facilitated when the perps. take responsibility and make it right. It shouldn’t be down to the victim for this. It should be up to the perpetrator. Your path of healing would have been a lot shorter if somebody besides you had taken responsibility.m Hi Michael, I wholeheartedly agree with you and that strong statements of responsibility are critical to help both victim and perpetrator. My intention here is simply to give some hope to people like me who may be reading this and who have no chance of their perpetrator taking responsibility to make it right and they won’t get ideal situations to aid healing. It’s not up to the victim whether the perpetrator wakes up and many of them may die without taking responsibility for the harm they have done, and it could also take decades for the sorry conditions on this earth to transform. I wouldn’t be waiting in the hope a perpetrator is going to make it right, best to move forward with healing now. Am I making any sense? With love Greta |
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| | Re:DROP THE HATE FORGIVE EACH OTHER 2 Weeks, 5 Days ago | | HAPPYELF wrote:
Its NOT ok. It NEVER was ok. And it is time that we STOP allowing this to be the standard.Happyelf Hi HE, I totally agree and look forward to transformation. With love Greta |
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